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From Heartache to Hope: My Journey with Infertility and Finding Peace
In this deeply personal journey, Kelly shares the struggles of infertility, multiple miscarriages, and the emotional toll of years of treatments. From unexplained infertility to the eventual birth of three children, the path was filled with heartache, doubt, and uncertainty. Yet, through it all, there is a message of hope. One day, the weight of infertility may lift, and peace can be found in the midst of the struggle.

Butterfly Support Network
Apr 243 min read


Fertility Struggles: A Journey of Hope, Loss, and Solidarity
In honor of Infertility Awareness Week, Adrieanna Kucher shares her story of fertility struggles, including multiple miscarriages and the emotional challenges she faced. After a traumatic loss in March 2025, she sought counselling and found support through the Butterfly Run. Living with PCOS has added its own difficulties, but she continues to hold onto hope. Her message is one of solidarity for others on a similar journey, reminding them that their grief, feelings, and hope

Butterfly Support Network
Apr 231 min read


Infertility is Largely Invisible
Infertility is often invisible, but its impact is anything but. In this honest reflection, Hilary Walton shares the emotional, physical, and financial toll of trying to conceive—and the quiet strength it takes to keep going. A powerful reminder that behind everyday faces are stories of loss, resilience, and the need for support.

Butterfly Support Network
Apr 223 min read


My Fertility Journey, Navigating Antiphospholipid Syndrome
After experiencing multiple miscarriages and the end of a relationship, Kim embarked on a fertility journey filled with challenges, heartbreak, and unexpected discoveries. Through treatments, personal growth, and the support of the Butterfly Run community, Kim found strength in connection and hope for the future. This blog shares Kim's story of resilience, the lessons learned along the way, and my unwavering desire to become a mother, despite the obstacles faced.

Butterfly Support Network
Apr 203 min read


Driving While Pregnant: What to Know for Safety and Comfort
For many women, driving during pregnancy is completely safe and part of everyday life. But pregnancy brings physical changes such as fatigue, nausea, swelling, and discomfort. These can sometimes make time behind the wheel more challenging. As your body changes, it’s important to pay attention to how you’re feeling. If sitting comfortably becomes difficult, or you’re struggling to stay focused on the road, it may be time to adjust your routine or ask someone else to drive. Yo

Butterfly Support Network
Feb 201 min read


A Different Kind of Birth Work: What Full-Spectrum Doulas Do During Loss
Learn how full-spectrum doulas support people through miscarriage, abortion, and loss with trauma-informed care. Discover Brood’s free-access Miscarriage & Early Loss Course for those facing financial barriers.
Kimberly Lockhart
Feb 134 min read


A Heart That Is Full: Navigating Life After Unexpected Childlessness
After years of infertility treatments, Kirsten Sherlock and her husband chose to stop trying to conceive. She shares the grief of unexpected childlessness and the journey toward healing through therapy, community, and self-compassion. Now a counsellor, she supports others facing similar loss and offers a compassionate space to find meaning and joy beyond parenthood.

Butterfly Support Network
Feb 62 min read


Reflections on Grief and Being Wholly Human
After losing her daughter Scarlett moments before birth, Lynn Farrales describes how grief shifted from an abstract idea to a full-body, life-altering experience. The loss shattered her identity and reshaped how she holds joy, sorrow, relationships, and healing. Through rituals, symbols like snowdrops, and rejecting forced positivity, she honours grief as an essential part of being wholly human.

Butterfly Support Network
Jan 232 min read


Sylas
My sweet Sylas 🤍, 2026 is here, and I’m not ready. I’m not ready to leave you in 2025. You came into 2024 and we welcomed 2025 together. We took this picture right at midnight. You stayed with us into mid January, long enough to wrap our hearts in your love. And now the thought of stepping into a year that doesn’t have you in it feels unbearable. It feels wrong. It feels scary. It feels empty. I don’t want to let go of you. I don’t think I ever will. I love seeing your name

Butterfly Support Network
Jan 222 min read


Finding Light After Loss: Three Supports That Helped Me Heal
After losing her son Marshall, Alanna Knobben learned that healing after child loss comes through connection, remembrance, and redefinition. Connecting with others brings understanding and hope, remembrance keeps loved ones present in our lives, and redefinition allows us to rebuild, honoring both love and loss as we learn to live forward.

Butterfly Support Network
Oct 30, 20252 min read


Every Story is Unique - Angel from Baby Bean
Our story began with love and loss—multiple miscarriages, a stillbirth, and the emotional weight of pregnancy after loss. Through grief and healing, we saw how many women face similar struggles without enough support. Baby Bean Consulting was created to change that, offering compassionate guidance, clarity, and empowerment for women navigating miscarriage, birth trauma, or pregnancy after loss.

Butterfly Support Network
Oct 22, 20255 min read


barefoot and brave.
Though no two lives will ever be the same, there is something to be said about hearing details of somebody’s story that mirror elements...
Kimberly Lockhart
Oct 24, 20247 min read


Honouring Our Little Kiaan on his First Heavenly Birthday: A Journey of Joy andHeartbreak
Pregnancy is often described as one of the most beautiful and transformative journeys a woman can experience. For me, it was a time of...
Kimberly Lockhart
Aug 21, 20245 min read


Landon Henry Delbaere-Mong
Dear: Landon Henry Delbaere-Mong I grew and loved you for 9 months My tummy was the only home you ever knew You only knew love You never...
Kimberly Lockhart
Aug 8, 20241 min read


Declutter Your Home, Declutter Your Mind: 5 Ways Your Cluttered Space May be Affecting Your Emotional Well-Being
Shared from one of our silent auction donors. CONTACT: olena@harmonyhomeorganizing.ca WEBSITE: https://harmonyhomeorganizing.ca/ Let’s...
Laura Markle
Jul 2, 20243 min read


Courtney Hiller, Bereaved Mama to Luca shares their TFRM story
Thank you to Courtney Hiller, bereaved Mama to Luca for sharing their story.
Laura Markle
May 4, 20246 min read


Butterfly Run Vancouver Island
A few weeks ago while doing after-school pickup and starving for conversation, I took the opportunity to chat with the other parents...
Laura Markle
Feb 26, 20243 min read


Warrior Mama Poem by Kelly Brown Moth
Warrior Mama I must have the heart of a warrior to continue down this path that I did not choose There are no side roads and there's no...
Kimberly Lockhart
Jan 18, 20241 min read


On Birth & Death
On Birth & Death Learning to Hold Both I became a mother this year. This in itself is un-unique; there are an estimated 2 billion mothers...
Kimberly Lockhart
Nov 27, 20233 min read


Rebecca Brereton Story of Love and Loss
Our journey to parenthood has not been easy or straightforward. Taylor and I had 3 losses before our son was born in 2019. This fourth...
Kimberly Lockhart
Sep 25, 20232 min read
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